Sex before marriage. Should you? Shouldn’t you? I think it is a personal choice, and you should do (or not do) whatever feels right for you. I think the main advantages to waiting are: 1. Assuming you both believe in waiting, there is very little risk of STDs (I say very little as obviously, there is still a … [Read more…]
Why is slut shaming still ok? Perhaps the more obvious question here is why is slut shaming even a thing? Why do we, as a society think it is ok to label someone based solely on who they choose to sleep with? I use the same argument for this as I use for gay … [Read more…]
People say if a relationship is worth having then you must be willing to stand up and fight for it. I’m not sure I agree with this. Surely if the relationship really is meant to be, it wouldn’t be a fight? I’m not suggesting that as soon as it gets a bit tough you just … [Read more…]
Do you sometimes feel like your relationship isn’t meant to be? Of course you do, it’s normal to have doubts, especially after a fight. If you find you feel like this almost constantly and without any trigger though, it could be that it’s time to end the relationship. Here are three signs it might be … [Read more…]
Women fought for years to have equal rights. The right to vote, the right to work for a fair salary and the right to work in a male dominated environment. Along with that, women fought to no longer be the “good little housewife”. Women no longer wanted to be the fairer sex, the weaker sex, … [Read more…]
I’ve heard a lot of discussions about whether or not friends with benefits is ever really possible. I think the answer is both yes and no (way to straddle a fence). Seriously though, I say that because I think it depends on the situation and the people involved. Firstly, I think for it to work, … [Read more…]
A couple of weeks ago, something happened to me that got me thinking about how we view STDs. I’m one of those people that isn’t really bothered what opinions complete strangers may or may not have of me, and (believe it or not) I’m not someone who is embarrassed easily, so my reaction to this … [Read more…]
What I see when people spread rumours! As a barmaid, it seems my life is open for discussion and judgement by every customer who walks through the door. Apparently, working in this industry means my life is fair game, and the bits they don’t know (which is most bits) they just make up and spread … [Read more…]
The club I work in is due to have it’s yearly meeting. Basically customers come to this meeting to discuss how well/badly the club is performing financially and how the year has gone. There is also a section where people can put letters in ahead of time to be read out at the meeting and … [Read more…]
The person who requested I share my opinion on this has asked not to be named. I realise this can be a touchy subject for some people so before I start I would just like to say that this post isn’t going to be judgemental. Which ever side of the fence you stand on, no … [Read more…]