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  1. Jenny | Jenny on a Plate

    I agree that if you are constantly fighting then that is a sign that the relationship probably isn't working. It doesn't necessarily have to spell the end though, there may just be some changes you can make to the relationship to improve things between you and lessen the arguments. I've heard it said before that some couples seem to thrive on a more 'fiery' relationship but any kind of constant bickering would really get me down!

  2. Louise (Little Hearts, Big Love)

    I agree that constantly fighting is not a good sign but there are times when relationships are hard work and the question is whether you are just having a stormy period that needs to be weathered or whether it is indicative of a more significant problem. It should be about give and take on both sides, not one person giving in all the time. My hubby and I certainly find that we fight more these days but then sleep deprivation also plays a big part in that. Sometimes we have to take a big step back and look at the bigger picture rather than the here and now.

  3. Tikeetha Thomas

    Totally agree with you. I stayed in a marriage WAY past the expiration date because it was a constant fight. I hated coming home. I hated him talking to me. I hated him touching me. We went through counseling 85% of our 11 year marriage and it never seemed to work. I believe in marriage, but I don't want a constant fight in my home.

  4. Mrs H

    Ummm, this is really interesting. My husband and I rarely fight. We bicker but we don't fight. But when we first got together we fought lots. It is amazing that we stayed together. But despite fighting we loved one another and so we both made a conscious effort to change for one another. If we had given up then I would have missed out on being married to a wonderful man and having a beautiful daughter. I feel that if it is meant to be then it will be. It shouldn't be so complicated. I think it is important not to overthink these things.Thanks for linking up to #SundaysStars. I am sorry that it has taken me so long to commt. Hugs Mrs H xxxx

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